Why You Always Run Out of Things to Say (And How to Fix It)
Most people assume they run out of things to say because they are boring, not interesting enough, or simply bad at conversation. This video challenges that assumption directly.
The real reason almost always has nothing to do with who you are — it has to do with where your attention is when you are in a conversation. When you are monitoring yourself, generating content, and managing impressions simultaneously, there is nothing left for the thing that actually makes conversation work: genuinely listening to the other person.
In this video you will learn why that pattern happens, why the standard advice makes it worse, and one specific technique — the Depth Question — that changes the shape of every conversation you have from this point forward.
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